Since we were born, we were taught how to live and how to be aware of our ecosystem in order to co-exist with other beings. But are we really aware really? When we are uncertain of our life, how can we be sure that these ‘’ways’’ to live our lives that we were given since birth are actually right ?
It’s alright if wee don’t find purpose on many things in life such as dancing; when you dance you don’t dance to end up on a particular spot on the floor, therefore dancing is purposeless. But that doesn’t happen with life, life must have a purpose in order to exist. Without a purpose in life it’s like living in a village with a very small radius, a really tiny village and you buy a car…What should you do with the car in a tiny village?
And the car ends up after years abandoned and rusty in your backyard.
Well, I like to share my life experiences with you (click button, link to this section on the blog page) because I can help you answer this simple but yet very important question. ''What should I do with a car in a tiny village?’’
First, we need to know more about this ''car’’, which is actually us… We need to know ourselves, in order to find purpose in life and truly exist. Within 3 decades of my teaching and counseling peoples I saw most
of the peoples stumbling throughout their life; after a while, I realized if we don't have a good understanding of life, one mistake next to another, how could we be alright? Other than repeating the same pattern, going over the same routine day by day, finally we aged then we die.
It seems we are caught in the same loop in our lives, doing the same things over and over again. Applying the same rules in each and every obstacle in our lives, until one day it doesn’t work the same way anymore. Then we realize that life changes, it’s a constant flow that keeps on shifting and all the solutions we had in the past where just bricks thrown into water.
Through my experiences I can assure you that this is not a problem that you have, it’s how we are made and we have been taught since day one.
Knowledge and information about ourselves are the most precious data we can obtain from this so called life. With these we can achieve to move like water in the water like famous martial artist and actor Bruce Lee said ‘’Water can flow; the water can crash, be water my friend.” Only then you can find a meaning in life and start building your way through life with balance, while you enjoy purposeless and meaningful things in life. By that in extension you will find a better purpose while you will realize that you just made a tremendous impact while you will give an example to the world, that you broke out from what we were taught and it’s possible.
That’s the way you get on the driver’s seat and drive for the first time outside of your tiny village with a purpose.
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